I believe that everyone has their own story to tell. One story that forms in their mind and the other is the reality of it. I definitely also believe that there is also a story or many stories in fact, to how people think your true story is like. They would never know if it is true, but they just want to try. Try to picture and imagine how someone’s story would be like. I guess maybe 50 percent of the time, those people are right. The other 50 percent is just full of bull shit. Everyone has their own mind set of things and there is no wrong into guessing or imagining how someone’s life is and even predicting it for them. However, what I find truly erroneous is that people try to imagine it to make themselves feel better or feel worse about themselves. I truly think that is the most unhealthy thing someone could ever do, but well.. everyone does it. I do it too and I absolutely disagree with it. You don’t put someone down in your mind, to make yourself feel superior. THAT IS WRONG. You should never put someone up high, so almighty and make yourself feel as small as an ant. THAT IS ALSO WRONG. Yes, we tend to imagine things and assume things are how it is but always keep in mind, what you’re thinking, 80 percent of the time you’re wrong because you are only thinking of yourself and not the other person. Being self centered is totally alright, loving yourself more than others is also perfectly fine, everybody is selfish in their own ways but making others feel terrible and so little of themselves, is not fine at all. No one should put someone down, even if you are at your lowest and lousiest point of time. No one should try to put someone down, even if it’s just in your mind. Your mind conquers it all, the actions will follow and the feelings to it. You have rights to judge and predict as you wish, but you certainly have no rights to make someone feel lousy and bringing someone down, most of all if it is to make yourself feel better. Make yourself feel better by doing better, doing things that makes you feel proud and anything seriously. DO NOT BRING SOMEONE DOWN TO FEEL BETTER OF YOURSELF, NEVER PUT YOURSELF UP HIGH TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF, NEVER PUT SOMEONE SO HIGH UP THAT MAKES YOU INCOMPARABLE, DO NOT LET ANYONE TAKE THAT SPOT LIGHT IN YOU. TAKE YOUR SPOT LIGHT, WITHOUT HAVING TO BRING ANYONE DOWN. THAT I THINK IS RIGHT.
I am in no position to say what is right or wrong but I guess I just needed to write this.